Rules for dating my teenage

And it was a good opportunity for them to practice their manners and learn how to behave in formal clothes. A teenager going on a first date at 17 is certainly not the norm in our culture.

But many experts agree that early dating is not a good idea.

However, even with these guidelines, three out of four of our teens had their first real date to the school prom in their junior year at age 17.

And those first dates were all with friends, not with someone with whom they were romantically involved.

When a child can date Giving a child the privilege of spending time with a member of the opposite sex is a freedom that is based upon our judgment of how responsible we deem this child to be. Is he strong enough to withstand peer pressure in a boy-girl situation?

In light of our reformatted definition of dating, we have the following very general age guidelines for spending time with a friend of the opposite sex (these are for our children still living at home).

That’s why it’s so important for our teens to wait to date.

Spiritual and emotional maturity can only come with time.

Whom they should date As a starting point, we believe our teens should develop friendships with and eventually date only other Christians (2 Corinthians -16).

Why go out with someone who does not have your values?

These external behaviors can be a reflection of good parental training.

It takes time to discover those qualities about a person and even more time to see if they are enduring or just a pretense.

He smiled as he thought about all those after-school trips over the last few years: dance classes, piano practices, the unending cycle of softball games and tournaments.