You might love his deep pockets, but with his great power comes your vulnerability.There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.
He's surprisingly, extremely mature, even though he's two years younger than me." "I dated a much older guy before meeting my current younger one, and I think I didn't take the younger guy as seriously because of his age.When we began dating he was still in college, and I was handling a demanding job.SEE IT: Mariah Carey's Racy Selfie for Nick Cannon's Birthday We asked 10 women to tell us what they learned from dating a younger guy. They're Not as Independent"Most of my exes were younger.In my opinion, it never turned out well because they were intimidated by where I was in life in comparison … They never took the initiative, or showed confidence.Realizing your new boyfriend is just a few years younger than your father is a harsh reality.
Remind yourself what ignited this initial attraction and focus on that.
As a younger, or transitioning individual, this stability may be exactly what you need. You can be sure that he won’t play games like millennials, since he’s past his prime player years. Mature men have refined tastes, and that isn’t limited to his pallet. Advice and wisdom will be readily available from someone who isn’t your parent, but is equally wise.
He can show you things you never knew possible, and you can teach him that new trick you learned in Cosmo. You won’t be dealing with the same texting, mixed signal bullshit that you’ve experienced in the past.
When the allure of dating someone new wears off, it’s important to accept your partner for the person that you met – even if they are 20 years your senior.
An older man usually has an established work, social and home life. Older men are often looking for something consistent. You won’t catch yourself with lingering thoughts of other lovers or competition.
They weren't as independent as I am, and sometimes I just wanted them to plan the date for once." "When I have the choice, I date men who are 30 years younger than me.