The two were supposed to meet for the first time on a blind date, but as they were making plans over the phone to get drinks at LFK, they realized they were driving past each other in the parking lot of Planet Fitness. Constantly seeing people from one’s past is the more common – and uncomfortable – kind of chance encounter in Portland, Straubel said.
As Straubel does now, Green, the Portland woman who was cautioned about being single here, believes that dating is all about attitude – and her approach in Portland has been not to take that warning to heart.“I think the dating scene depends on the person,” she said.The exception is Portsmouth, New Hampshire, where nearly 7 percent of young singles use the site. In a random selection of cities known as cultural centers, Portland falls smack in the middle for singles per capita – lower than Boston and Austin, Texas, but higher than Seattle and San Francisco.But the concentration of eligible mates there is relatively low, with 20 percent of Portsmouth’s adult population under 35 and unmarried, compared with 26.5 percent in Portland, according to U. SMALL CITY HELPS – AND HINDERS Arthur Malov, an instructor for the International Dating Coach Association in New York City, said there’s a better predictor of whether a city is a good place to date.COM About 5 percent of Portland’s single residents ages 20 to 34 are putting themselves out there with photos on
That’s more than in most New England cities, including Burlington, Vermont, where 3.5 percent of young singles have profiles with pictures, and Providence, Rhode Island, where less than 2 percent are active on At a tasting and tour of the Urban Farm Fermentory this month, singles stood around sampling hard cider while chatting with friends, making small talk with strangers and surveying the crowd.“There’s tons of great people in Portland and tons of great events going on,” said Erin Oldham, the founder of Local Flames.“There are lots of people who are trying to meet people,” he said.Apse, who has lived in several smaller towns, said he moved to Portland because he thought he’d have a better chance of finding a partner in the city.Cleary said it’s a common problem in Portland, where it seems there’s never more than two degrees of separation between you and a suitor. “If I were single and met someone new, there’s going to be 10 people I know that are going to have something to say about that person.” Although Cleary sees that as a downside to dating here, Abbie Mc Gilvery likes the fact that getting insight into a potential new partner is only a phone call away – often to someone who has already dated that person.