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The unpleasant reality for us girls is that truly, we only have a shot with the guy who thinks we’re hot.

We’re barraged with lots and lots and lots of photos of beautiful, seemingly perfect people. Cindy Crawford said once, “I wish I looked like Cindy Crawford!” – By the time the artists are done photo-shopping her image, she hardly recognizes herself.The guy who is hot for you, who does meet your top three critical criteria—give this guy a second date, and then a third. If you’ve not done so already, register with me privately, for free, to be eligible for personal matchmaking referrals throughout the U. [image: via studio tdes on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?Register with Meet Mindful for free today—the fastest growing dating site for conscious singles.I recently got a tweet from matchmaker and relationship expert Siggy Flicker telling me she was a fan of this blog and thought I was a brave and honest writer.

It was lovely, and a big deal because I think Siggy is great and am a fan of hers.

I learned things about Siggy I did not know, and just loved her. We were both born in Israel, both of our fathers fought in the Six Day War, and both of our families immigrated to North America after the war.

We are close to the same age, have the same boldness gene, both speak our minds, and are both quite funny.

Are you sabotaging your love life by setting yourself up for failure, targeting the wrong type of guy over and over and over again? Especially with regard to looks, attraction and the whole “chemistry” conundrum, let’s look closely at your .

As a matchmaker, I see lots of women falling into the Broken Picker trap.

Too often I present my female client with the detailed profile of the man who’s well qualified and vetted for her, who meets all of her most important criteria and who’s totally hot to meet her…