I only dated her for about a month, and I have to say that it was the most exhausting month of my life. It's funny because I caught myself checking her out when I was dating the BPD girl. then a lot of trashy half-filled-out, inactive matches. Then I bit the bullet and signed up with e Harmony.I had one date with another nice guy who wasn't my cup of tea, a date in which neither of us liked the other, a date with a guy who I hung out with a few more times...
He met a woman in person and he's been with her for two years. Ok, I guess I'm a bad example but I've learned that if women are on dating sites, there is a reason and most of the time it isn't a good one. Besides these two women, I've gone on several dates and have talked with a LOT of women but have been on and off these sites for several years.
He wouldn't follow my advice though and his profile wasn't the best. Two of the women were great and I dated them for several months.
The women I met on payed sites seemed to match that.
Of course, I made a back choice of a partner between the women I met online, and kicked her out last November.
If I was bullying him, then I would be bullying myself because I have said before that I lost my virginity late in life too. He wouldn't follow my advice though and his profile wasn't the best.
I can give you tips but my buddy couldn't get a date either.
I met my boyfriend on Match.com, we've been together almost three years now so I'd say it worked out well for me.
There were a few interesting experiences on Match before I met my boyfriend: One nice but boring guy who I went out with a few times before we decided it wasn't going anywhere.
If they say the pic of you sucks, don't make that your friggin profile pic.
I have to say my experience was pretty good, as I am engaged to the 4th man I met through ok Cupid. I'll share my most recent one, which was about two years ago.
I think it's also important with online dates to avoid placing too much hope in any one person until you've had some time to get to know them, and it's easier to do that when you have a lot of balls in the air.