I think Oasis Active still sent you the odd email even if you deactivated your account (I think the account is still on record for 6-12 months after deactivation) There's no point confronting him without harder evidence. That's why I asked here if anyone gets spam from these particular dating sites without ever having joined. As for whether he was a member of these sites before we were a couple – we have been a couple a lot longer than these dating sites have existed and certainly before apps, i Phones and tablets.
I'm not going to make myself go mad over this but I'll just have to be on alert for more signs.
Not only that, but you may be found guilty of cashing bogus checks.Another scenario is that the scammer finds out that you have a need for money and loans you a large amount with cashiers checks. Most dating sites are full of them, and many sites don't bother to get rid of scammers - because scammers look good...scammers use model photos, have nice profiles, and that attracts more members.Or they got injured and are in the hospital but can't get treated without money.
They are very good at making you feel sorry for them.The scammer cannot afford it, but offers to drive to meet you (or take a plane or bus), and requests money to help pay for this.After you send the money, you never hear from them again - or you receive ongoing excuses to delay the trip and more requests for money.He admitted that he wanted to get caught doing it because he felt he wasn't getting any attention from me. We argued a lot, then started talking worked things out for a while. I can't imagine why he needs to talk to other women which is why I th0ught I'd check here first – thought our relationship was pretty good actually. Then he definitely did create an account with them. An I just move all these email straight to the spam box. Unless he has forgotten to deactivate dating sites from the past.I signed up to e harmony years ago (for one of those free communication weekends, I logged on once) on an email address I rarely use anymore.Scammer is sick or has a sick parent or child, or is stuck in a country (Nigeria or Russia usually) and they need your help.