There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Discover The Exact Texts you need to get her texting back and on a date in our next article. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that. Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.
Everything leading up to the meet up should demonstrate value, build her comfort levels and excitement about meeting you.Ok, so you’ve been down the gym, had a damn good workout and think she’d appreciate a ripped photo of you with your shirt off. If you haven’t built up enough attraction yet, topless photos will scare her off.Don’t ever send revealing photos unless she has specifically asked for them or if you’re sexting, because just sending them out of the blue will appear needy and will be totally inappropriate.It also demonstrates you are a low value male because a high value male would never dish out revealing photos of his body without them being earned first.Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.
So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.
Plus, you’re forcing a reaction and what do you seriously expect her to say?
“OMG you’re so hot I wanna f*ck your brains out right now baby, what’s your address?!
It will remove her anxiety about texting you the next day and means you can start comfort building a lot easier. Also using words like “beautiful”, “gorgeous”, etc.
You may think you’re complimenting her but she’ll just think you call all girls “beautiful” or “gorgeous”.
” If you really want to send her photos that’ll put a smile on her face, send photos of adorable furry animals. If you’re using text slang, improper grammar, or being lazy about checking your messages before you send them, chances are you’ve already blown it. If she never swears or uses slang language, never use it back.