azdg dating in site Dating someone 13 years older than you

Not long after we took a road trip to California together, said “I love you” for the first time on Valentine’s day and the rest…it’s not so distant history.

Looking back there are a lot of reasons Jordan and I shouldn’t have met.

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Jordan is so focused on his career while I still want to drop everything to travel the world.I don’t feel any sense of urgency when it comes to investments and house hunting and owning furniture not from Ikea.We both didn’t want to go up to the mountain that day, we both almost flaked out, we both were sort of seeing other people (casually) and we are ten years apart.For Jordan, the latter was less of a big deal than it was to me.I didn’t know how to pay my bills on time, or clean an oven and my bedspread was from the children’s section of Target.

Though I’d always thought of myself as mentally and emotionally mature I still saw 30 as “grown-up” and on the inside I felt too similar to a lost little girl.When we first met it was a minor adjustment, in the initial dating period it didn’t matter at all, and now that we’re settled into a serious and committed relationship the difference is more substantial.Jordan wants to buy a house, while I’m still feeling stoked to have my own apartment.I was sick of guys who saw me as a blonde barbie kind of girl, and Jordan was just the opposite.He saw past everything superficial and seemingly appreciated my soul.When one of my friend’s gets engaged I’m freaking out (because NONE of my friends has been engaged yet) while half of his friends are married.