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Now, once he does take his space, have a friend on hand who you can call when you are jonesing to contact him, and make sure this friend is Tell her that you only need her strength and patience, not her fears and opinions.
You aren't going to tell him how you are not eating and how you cry on the floor of the shower for hours.
You aren't going to tell him you want to spend the rest of your life with him and have his babies, and I really do love and care for you deeply. The way you bring me medicine when I am sick lifts my spirits faster than Airborne works on my congestion.
Meditate, focus on things you love, don't do things you don't love to do, and give yourself permission to feel your feelings without marinating in them too long.
In the end, if he comes back, let him guide the pace of things — because you love him and are willing to surrender control over the unknown and control over the relationship. And, remember, sometimes it takes space to close a gap.
Feel your heart warm over with love for him and deep care for him as a person. Get a piece of paper and with loving feelings flowing through your heart, make two lists; a list of all the things you love about him, and one of all the things you think he loves about you.