Warren, As a woman I feel a little strange about making the first move, and yet I see matches I would really like to begin exchanging messages with.If I initiate communication with them, will I come across as not much of a challenge?In that case, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, and continue on for a bit and see.
If I go out with a guy and don't hear back from him within 24 hours, I assume he's not into me enough for me to be interested.
Sometimes later, a guy may communicate later than that and let you know there was a reason for taking that time.
So, " Thank you for a lovely evening, I really enjoyed it" followed by a passionate kiss, let's them know where they stand. I'm willing to be corrected on this by the guys lol.
I am curious how much time you gave the guy to respond? lol I still believe that it is the mans role to make contact.
Does a woman starting contact take the “thrill of the chase” away from a guy?
Sincerely, Susan, Idaho Falls, ID Answer Dear Susan, Thank you for your great question.And I make it very clear if my interest is there, so the guy knows I'm into him.From what Ive seen, men read actions better than words- and precise words help.But that's not to say he should be eager and out of control emotionally, because this is a nail in the coffin of attraction!He should call within a week or so, if he is interested, in my opinion. This time I decided not to make any contact and didn't hear anything from him for a whole week. As for the first contact, asking someone if they would like to go out sometime on a date. Not this, hey call you later and arrange a time to go out. The first 60 seconds that I meet someone for the first time, I just know if I like that person or not. How does one continue the sequence 2.71828182844...