Sure, those women are out there, but the ones I talked to, all in long-term relationships, never brought up this issue.
They mentioned they had great chemistry with the guy, enjoyed his personality and shared common interests.
All of the women said that the guys they've dated are honest and someone they can really trust.Several also mentioned that they like the fact that they're dating a guy, not his whole family.But there one downside to not having parents heavily involved in your relationships: Western parents won't do all of the things Chinese parents do as a matter of course: Buy him a house or be your live-in nanny if you have kids.One of my interviewees, who has children, said that she understood this cultural difference. Growing up two of my friends were dating, and he was of Chinese descent and she was of African descent.
Although he's mixed race, Russell Wong has a daughter with a woman of African descent.Here are some reasons why Chinese women are attracted to Western men: Almost all of the women I talked with said that they love that their men enjoy life.They won't want someone who lives just to climb the career ladder and spend all their waking hours working on business projects. I reached out to half a dozen Chinese women, all with Western boyfriends and husbands, to find out more on their feelings towards their relationships as well as the challenges that come with it.This is nowhere near a comprehensive study, but I enjoyed hearing what they had to say about their Western partners including the joys and challenges of the relationship.Foreign men, in their opinion, tend to want to talk it through and resolve the issue as soon as possible.