He was stationed in Iraq when we started talking as friends & then later met when he came home, etc...Like most women in similar situations, I don't look my age.She's still gorgeous and her company is what I value most. Go for what feels good trust God,and your heart,im in love with a 34,im 62we never slept together, he's in a another country,feel his presence like he's with me, yes,if husband who is a stroke victim,i would marry him. I just miss him and I just wonder sometimes if he ever misses me and I know i shouldnt be looking for validation.
my girl goes through extended periods where she becomes very care-worn, constantly thinking about bigger picture stuff, and forgets to enjoy the moment.My girlfriend too says she likes me because I've got a lot of depth and experience for my age. If that's the case with you then believe in it and give him a chance.We have been on again- off again for 3 years due soley to my issues with our 14yr age difference.That & the fact that our relationship has been long distance for the majority of the past 3yrs.There are no women in my own age group who even slightly do it for me like she does, and it's intolerable to think I'd miss out on her for something I'd consider small when compared to the rest.
Give this guy a shot, yeah he might be a **** sometimes and might give you the run around, but he won't let you down Thank you Maggie for your post this is extremely true, while Its nice in the beginning the older person will get hurt at the end and it sucks, if you like younger men, date them no more then 5 years younger I guarantee it will work becuase I know for experience that I loved my ex which was 4 years older, But I would never date older women that are 6 years older then me, be careful what you wish for.So Why is it then that although I greatly appreciate their respect & courtesy towards my person, why is it not an issue for his parents or siblings? Or is it silent judgement I haven't caught on to yet? To me, it seems like, you are trying to make it justified if in future, your kid wants to marry someone older than them and you strongly oppose them. With this negativity, you won't be happy even if your husband is perfect in everything. I recently met a beautiful 23 year old soul while on vacation & shared some blissful moments together (not all blissful moments have to be intimate).My gf is 8 years older than me and my family accepted her. Because they have seen that this girl makes me happy and they want to see me happy. My only regret is that I did not spend more time with him due to "worrying" what everyone else was thinking, including myself. I have been happily married for 25 years to a lady 20 years my elder.At the moment we remain just friends and I have stated so many times that we can't date as he is waaayyyy too young for me. I am very young (in looks and personality) for my age and he is wise and mature beyond his years.Yet, I still worry about what everyone would think of me and whether it has any hope of working out. If everything you say about being perfect for each other and having a deep connection and you want same things in life, then why should age matter?Amen My heart is glad that you and your beloved are together... Recently, after to many questions i started addressing them in multiple books. Or you had your defenses up and ready for a western fight about age and they didn't give you one. You wanted their 23 year old son and brother you got him.