I know he gets jealous if I allude to getting another male's attention or something like that.For Valentine's day I sent him a picture of chocolates and a card (from my dad) and he called me immediately, made small talk, and quickly got around to asking who the gifts were from.And it may not even be what he really wants...be in his marriage.
I understand this may or may not happen, but I'm curious to hear your thoughts.
I wonder how you will feel when one day he rolls over and sees that you are no longer a young 25 years old and he has lost his emotional connection to you. Even if he did, what makes you think he won't cheat on you? If he felt this way toward her, cheating doesn't make it right.
Families that were happily married for years can suddenly realize that they cannot wind up looking at their lawful partner.
If you notice the same thing, switch to something really hot!
Or he will do what will truly make him happy and be with you(which is what you want).
Or he will continue to lie to his wife and lead a double life which is not fair to you.It seems like its just another excuse to make the affair OKAY.I'm not saying that this guy is leading you on right now and he may actually want to be with you.Everybody makes mistakes but as it is right now, if the wife finds out about you it will make for living hell for him...then probably you.Sometimes when you're faced with adversity or issues, its not uncommon for people to take the easy route back to peace.He messes with you because he knows you are not thinking about long term. Wait until you see what you look like after having three kids and taking care of a household. They don't want to be the "reason" for any break up. I believe you may have feelings for each other but actions truly do speak louder than words.